Living with a stoma can be a challenging experience, especially for women. It can impact all aspects of life, including physical, emotional, and social well-being. In this article, we will explore some of the unique women’s health issues related to living with a stoma and how to effectively manage them.
What is a stoma?
A stoma is an opening on the abdomen that is created surgically to divert the flow of stool or urine from the body. It is typically formed after a medical condition or surgery that affects the normal functioning of the digestive or urinary system.
What are the stoma types?
There are three main ostomy types – colostomy, ileostomy, and urostomy. The first two relate to the bowel, with the colostomy diverting the large colon and the ileostomy diverting the smaller colon to the abdomen opening.
The urostomy relates to the urinary tract and may be performed after a bladder removal.
The emotional side of an ostomy
Given the nature of the surgery, an ostomy potentially presents an emotional hurdle to overcome, in addition to the mental and physical elements. There are natural questions as to what life may look like following the surgery. On the positive side, a vast number of women who have undergone the surgery procedure report a sense of empowerment and positivity.
A recent study showed that, with familiarity and the sense of gaining control over the stoma that came with it, a sense of connection with their body’s development naturally led to a feeling of empowerment.
In short, many people developed fears as to what an ostomy might entail, which were quite simply not grounded in reality. Professional support throughout the lead-up to surgery and the rehabilitation process afterward goes a long way to assuage these fears and misconceptions.
Body image
Many women have apprehensions about what life with an ostomy bag might look like, and quite naturally, many of these concerns revolve around the question of body image.
Essentially a low-profile stoma bag is attached to the abdomen to collect waste material. This bag is discreet and can be worn and concealed under everyday clothes. Filters in the bag mean that the attachment is odorless.
Having recovered from the initial surgery, even the most active of people find that life returns to normal. Activities like work, exercise, socializing, and sports can continue as normal.
These are perhaps the greatest stated concerns for a person confronted by the possibility of a stoma operation, and many go on to report that the reality of the situation turned out to be quite different from what was anticipated.
Sex and intimacy
Naturally, the question of maintaining a normal sex life with an intimate partner is often raised. The good news is that stoma surgery does not generally limit normal sexual activity. Having fully recovered from surgery and moving past feelings of self-consciousness are perhaps the greatest ‘limitations’. The same old rules apply – good communication and trust with intimate partners are the greatest contributors to a healthy sex life.
Living with a stoma as a woman can pose unique health challenges that require careful management and support. By practicing good stoma care, seeking emotional support, consulting healthcare professionals, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle, women can navigate these challenges with confidence and resilience. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources available to help you every step of the way.